Over the years I have watched tens of thousands of women try to "mend their broken hearts" by trying to "fix their broken men." I get it. I really do. Why? Because I wasted years of valuable time doing the same thing throughout the first half of my adult life. I, like the majority of women, have a loving, caring heart. I was a true romantic believing that love was the cure to all ills and evils. I truly believed that if you would show a man "unconditional love," then he could learn how to fall in love with you just as unconditionally.
Guess what? It doesn't work. Lesson One to be learned in life is that it is easier for a broken man to break you than for you to fix him. That's a fact. Guys who are broken aren't looking to be fixed. "Fixing" is your idea--not his. In the upcoming days I will discuss the "breaking down" process. Please feel free to share your stories here too. My book ManReaders talks about the millions of men who are broken and unfixable. Check it out at www.Dysfunctionalmen.com!
Love, Bonnie
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